I’m discovering something. I’m discovering that Khanya has a point about quality vs quantity. It’s funny how I agreed with him on this point but I still insisted on seeing him 3-4 times a week. So I’m thinking things over and I am coming to the conclusion that we both need time out to do stuff. He has to concentrate on his business, programming, reading, philosophy lectures, etc and I have to concentrate on beating him at Scrabble, finishing The selfish gene, boxing classes, time spent with my friends, and finishing my novel.

And when we do see each other it’ll be filled with talk about the latest book we read or about my trip to Vic Falls. We’ll never run out of stuff to talk about in this way.