How do I know if I’ve had an orgasm?


What’s the best way to know? Surely it’s not as straight-forward as just knowing? Is there a check-list for people like myself?


10 Responses to “How do I know if I’ve had an orgasm?”

  1. Lee Says:

    OK, as you might know I am a guy so maybe I am not best to explain….

    I would say it is that simple “You will know if you have had one”

    I don’t think that there is some sort of light that pops up when you have, you just now it…. and its not the normal “That was nice” its “HOLY SHIT I CANT TAKE IT! THATS AMAZZZZZING!!!” sort of thing…. Well it should be anyway 😉

    If you need any tips for your guys just ask 😉

  2. callith Says:

    I don’t think it is that simple, Lee. I’ve read that for some women, orgasms are not that momentous at all. I’m hoping I *will* know.

  3. Lee Says:

    Nah, that’s just because they are told that they have had one by their bf but they never.

    Without sounding “big headed” my girlfriend said she had had loads with her ex but when she had did have one with myself she said she never had had one before…

    I know i sound like a right dick now, and maybe I am wrong, I’m not a “women” after all so what do i know.

    Wish i did know more about it though 😛

  4. callith Says:

    Well, I’ve read lots and lots and lots about orgasms. I’m not disputing you, Lee. Not many women “cum” with penetration alone. We need stimulation to that little nubbin in front.

    Those women I mentioned, are well documented. Not everyone experience an earth-shattering orgasm.

    Also, we place far too much emphasis on orgasms. It’s funny because it’s a very modern fixation. I think it’s also a very male one: My gf doesn’t “Cum”, so surely there’s something wrong with me?

  5. Lee Says:

    I don’t think you have anything wrong with you. I sit in on many girly chats with my girlfriend and her friends and listen to things like this all the time.

    Its amazing how many girls do not know if they have ever had one or what it is like. Many think they “might” have had one but are not sure.

    I think this is why many of her friends think I am gay or something, not many guys will sit in a room filled with girls talking about this type of thing… But I think its interesting and if more guys did it they would learn loads.

    I also think this “Women cumming” thing is fake… I don’t think its like the way guys do and when it happens i am sure there is some normal explanation.

    Thanks for you post 😀

  6. callith Says:

    Hi, Lee

    Thanks for your comments!

    “Woman cumming” is fake? Please explain? Do you mean that there’s too much hype surrounding it, or do you mean that women are unable to orgasm? (I’m sure you mean the former, or something like it!)

    No, I don’t think you’re gay. I also wish more guys would take notes when women talk…

    And this is why I’m so grateful for Victor. He’s everything I could wish for in a guy.

  7. Lee Says:

    Sorry I think we got our wires crossed on the “Cum” word.

    I meant the whole myth about girls ejaculating and things… I hear about it but don’t think its real… well never really had it happen to with anyone…

  8. callith Says:

    Um.. Victor told me about a girl he was involved with who squirted. It happens, but not to everyone.

    Thankfully, or else we would have to do a lot more laundry!

  9. leedoyle Says:

    Haha. Well maybe its true…

    Who knows… i dont…

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